Portland Matchmakers Reveal Signs He’s Moving Too Slow

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Men, though they think they are simple creatures, are not always easy to read. Often, without knowing it, they give out mixed signals. And when you’re dating early on, it’s confusing to know where his true intentions lay. You may wonder if he is taking it slow and getting to know you – or if he’s just dragging things along and doesn’t even want to be in a relationship with you.

So, what are the signs he’s moving too slow in the relationship?

Today, our Portland matchmakers here at Portland Singles Dating Service are going to show you the telltale warning signs he’s moving too slow in the relationship.

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1. He avoids meeting your friends.

When you’ve been dating for a while, it’s a good idea to meet each other’s friends. When you know you’re ready to be a part of each other’s lives, that’s the time to meet each other’s friends. It’s a big milestone in a relationship. If you’ve been together for several months now and he still hasn’t suggested meeting your friends, even though you both regularly spend time with those in your respective social circles, it’s probably a sign he doesn’t see himself in a long-term relationship with you. If he did, he’d want to get to know the people you hang out with on a regular basis because he knows they are important to you

2. He’s not affectionate.

Affection is very important for a relationship. It shows that there’s tenderness and loving feelings. Without any affection in your relationship, you can start to feel uncared for or like your partner is giving you the cold shoulder.

While PDA’s might not be for everyone, if your partner never gives you his attention or shows interest in you in private, such as by kissing you or hugging you, this is a clear sign your relationship is fizzling out.

3. He doesn’t invite you to his place.

After months of being together, you should be invited to his place. This is important because when he invites you over, he’s letting you into his own world. He’s showing you how he lives, what his lifestyle is like, and he’s including you in it.

If he’s home is off limits for you, it could be a sign that he’s holding back on letting in into his life. There could be something about his place or personal life that he knows could scare you away. But worst of all, he could be lying to you about something, such as the fact that he has a girlfriend who visits him regularly or even lives with him.

4. He doesn’t express his emotions.

It can be healthy not to let your emotions come out during the early stages of the relationship. But if you’ve been dating for several months now and your boyfriend never lets you know how he feels about you, whether it’s about you or other things in the relationship, this can be very frustrating.

It’s also a red flag because it’s like he’s hiding something from you, and it can make you feel that he doesn’t trust you enough to share those emotions with you. That’s not exactly what happens in a healthy relationship. If he can’t express his feelings and emotions with you, it might be time to have a talk with him before you invest any more of your precious time and efforts.

If you’re tired of meeting guys who aren’t serious about dating, let our Portland matchmakers take over the hard part of dating for you. If you’re single and ready to meet relationship-minded single men in Portland, contact our matchmakers today.

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